Saturday, October 31, 2009
Happy Halloween
And because my posts are so much more exciting with a picture....here's the kids on Trick-or-Treat night. Harley was a punked up version of Hannah Montana and Bryce was a ninja. Brenden and Taylor were "too cool to trick-or-treat".
Busy week coming up....lots of posts to share.....
Tuesday, October 27, 2009
Finishing up....
Sunday, October 25, 2009
Baby Jack
Thursday, October 22, 2009
Holy cow!!!
Holy cow.
A few weeks ago, I found myself on one of the most fun engagement shoots to date. Monica and Curt are one of my August 2010 Wedding couples. Lucky me!
Growing up in the same town, I knew of Monica's family and knew that they were pretty big into farming. Like acres and acres big into farming. Not to mention Curt, her rather adorable Groom to be, is a full time farmer. Yeah, full time....all day. So, it came as no surprise when she told me of their plans to have their engagement shoot done on their farm. And to me, it only seemed fitting that we did their session where they spend the most of their time.
There was always a little part of me growing up that made me wish I lived on a farm with stray cats, livestock, funny smells and lots of bugs. It was completely short lived, but whatever.
Here are a couple of my favorites from the day....
I know they look like cows, but they were more like watch dogs. Reeeeeeeallllllly BIG, smelly, watch dogs.
Friday, October 16, 2009
You'll Never See It Coming........
"Why did Brenden need his phone charger when we were going to be picking him up in 3 hours. AND it's 8:00 at night??"
The kids were at Papaw Reck's for the evening and it seemed a bit strange that we had to go out of our way to drop off a phone charger. Who could that kid possibly be talking to??!? And in true Chris fashion, his response to me questioning him about it was "I told him that I'd do it and I'm going to honor my word".
Geez, how was I supposed to argue with that?!
We pulled in and hopped out of the truck -- phone charger in hand, of course. Grandma Sheri was watching a movie in the living room when we walked in. We chatted a minute or two (ironically about how nice Chris looked) when she told us that the kids and Papaw were "camping" in the backyard.
"You can just go thru the kitchen", she said. So, we did. I was leading the way and was kind of in a hurry....we had people waiting on us to celebrate me turning 33.
"SUUUURRRRPRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRISE!!!"
"What the ...what's going on???"
I looked around and saw all of my closest friends, smiles plastered on their faces like they had just pulled off some top secret Oval Office mission. The kids had made me a huge homemade birthday sign with big 3's all over it and it was strategically hung on the kitchen cabinets. There were cards and lots of hugs.
I'm pretty good at picking up on things and I was clueless. No one slipped up and said anything. No one was acting funny.
Centered smack-dab in the middle of the kitchen table was an enormous birthday cake with two, big, candles in the shape of a 3.....and a hideous picture of me in a tap dance costume from when I was eight years old. Yeah, not the ideal picture to be on my birthday cake, but I'll give the man credit for making it special and unique. Plus, you can waiver some of the embarrassment for someone that went out of their way to surprise me. Besides, it IS pretty funny.
So, I sat down and opened up all of my cards preciously made by four little kids. OUR four kids, to be exact. And one from Papaw,Grandma, and Katie (the dog). And one from my amazing boyfriend.
Chris interrupted me with "Do you want your gift now, or do you want to wait until tomorrow?" Since, technically, my birthday was the next day he could've easily made me wait. And before I could mutter the first syllable, he said "oh, you can have it now".
Delighted, of course, I sat there and was thrilled that I didn't have to wait another 24 hours for whatever was wrapped in that pretty red paper behind him. And, as he turned around to grab it off of the hutch it sat on, he knocked it to the floor.
To the hardwood floor.
I could tell it was a glass of some sort and I could REALLY tell once it hit the floor. "He broke it!...is it replaceable?.....what if the kids made it????" A thousand thoughts flooded my brain and my only hope was that no one was going to be upset. "Please let it be okay. Please let it be in one piece."
Chris hovered over it like a wounded kitten he was trying to heal. I couldn't see what kind of shape it was in (or what it was for that matter) so I stood up, hoping for a better view. In the seconds between me deciding to stand up to me actually standing on my two feet, Chris turned around and looked up at me.
On one knee.
One one knee with a tiny, black, box in his hand.
It was as if I were standing too close to a pizza oven. A hot flash from the wrinkles in my forehead to the polish on my pinky toes waved over me. My hands immediately covered my wide-open mouth. My eyes welled up with tears. "Don't blink, your mascara will run", I told myself.
Thursday, October 1, 2009
More like family than not.
Sure, I have a mom and dad who are responsible for creating me. But, my mom died when I was a freshman in high school and my dad......well, let's just say he chose not to be around. But I have never suffered by the losses. I've never felt short-changed or cheated.
Because of these 'other' people in my life.
I may not have had my parents in the latter part of my life, but I am fortunate enough to have amazing grandparents -- who have been my parental role models much of my life. I am trying to instill values into my own children that my grandparents molded me by. I want my kids to be thankful for what they have and to not take anything for granted. I want them to appreciate a hard earned dollar. I want the girls to learn to sew and the boys to learn to cook. I want them to learn that discipline will get you everywhere and dishonesty will get you nowhere. I want them to know that manners are monumental. I want them to know, truly KNOW, that our love is unconditional. These are the things I'm teaching my kids because my grandparents took the time to teach me.
I have an Aunt that isn't "technically" my mom or dad's sister, but yet was trusted enough to let me stay long country summers with her and her family. Aunt Leah has guided me thru much of my life -- the good, the bad, the easy or the difficult -- without expecting much in return. She held my hand thru my parents divorce and thru my own divorce. She spoke encouraging words as I nervously sat getting my ears pierced at the age of twelve, and encouraged me to follow my artistic dreams at the age of 25. She has taught me how to be patient with my own kids by being patient with me when I broke her living room lamp when I was ten. I try to emulate her patience and her open mindedness. She inspired me to set my own bar high and has been the catalyst in my zest for an adventurous life. Both individually, and as a parent.
I have incredible friends who are called "aunt" and "uncle" by my kids. They rough-house together, play football together, they share secrets and shopping trips. They fall alseep in their laps and do that armpit/farting thing together. They laugh. They laugh until there are tears. They are loved. They are loved until it oozes from the pores on their dirty, little faces.
There have been teachers that have mentored me without ever stepping a foot into their classroom.
There are band directors that have taught me how to "pay it forward" to those less fortunate.
And there were lifeguards that were my "family" if only for 90 hot, summer days. At a time in my life when the term 'family' was confusing enough...divorces, adoptions.....it was a struggle to fit in. Yet, Randy and Lisa and their little, big family of lifeguards made you feel like that's just where you belonged.
It were those summers that taught me the most about "family", about being accepted for WHO you were and not WHAT you were, and about support. It was that group of neighboring town transplants that all had common ground around an L shaped swimming pool. It didn't matter what school you went to, or who your boyfriend was. "They were brother's that picked on you, sisters that leaned on you and a mom that ran the show....." They proved that friendships get stronger year after year, and bonds remain strong years after you moved on to "real" jobs.
The Anderson's were the core of that summer family. 4 people that poured their heart and soul into the community watering hole. 4 people that made that place my "home"....complete with a screen door slamming and a mom that yelled at you when it did.
They have always held a special place in my heart....like family should.A few weeks ago, I got a phone call from the Anderson family. They needed family pictures and I was honored to do it. Heather's sister, Holly, was in from Florida so she figured that was the perfect time to gather the families.
I believe that being related doesn't neccessarily make you family, and just because you aren't related, doesn't mean you're not.